A plumber surnamed Wang fled back to his rented house in Taoyuan and fell to his death from the top floor. The police cordoned off the scene for investigation.

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Two cases of love affair cost three lives, break up negotiations, try to avoid one-on-one

[Reporter Xie Wuxiong/Taoyuan Report] Taoyuan City and Chiayi City shared the murder case yesterday. How to break up safely has become an important issue; Taoyuan City Government Health Bureau Deputy Director and psychiatrist Su Baiwen suggested that during the relationship between couples, if the other party often When there is aggression, a strong desire to control, or even intimate violence, you must pay special attention to safety when negotiating a breakup, try to avoid one-on-one negotiations, and leave the dangerous situation of one-on-one negotiations when necessary.

Su Bowen said that in the moment of emotional dispute negotiation, don't overestimate the power of self-protection. In addition to avoiding discussions in one-on-one situations where you can't ask for help, you should also avoid verbal provocation and stimulation; When people enjoy the happiness of being "meticulously taken care of" when they are in love, there is often hidden control over love. When one party cannot meet expectations, it is likely that love will turn into hatred and become a terrible lover.

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Couples still have to respect each other's boundaries

Su Bowen mentioned that lovers should still respect each other's boundaries, and there should be no physical violence. Foreign studies regard peeking at each other's letters or mobile phones, controlling which friends a partner can see, how they should dress, etc., as violations of boundaries. , Intimate violence is prone to occur when the situation is serious.

Lin Yanting, director of the Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Prevention and Control Center of Taoyuan City Government, said that it is best for couples to negotiate a breakup in public and have a way to protect themselves. You have to worry about whether you are a horror lover.