Recently, a female netizen posted on the Internet that she has been married for 9 years, but her mother-in-law's family has never called her by her name, and they all use "who is that", "what is that called", "XXX's wife" skip.
It made Yuan PO feel that she was not respected by her husband's family, and did not take her seriously.
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[Instant News/Comprehensive Report] Recently, a female netizen posted on the Internet that she has been married for 9 years, but her mother-in-law’s family has never called her by her name. What's your name?" and "XXX's wife".
The original PO was upset and said, "I'm not an aborigine or a foreigner. It's hard to remember my name. I have a name and a surname, okay?" She thought that she was not respected by her husband's family and did not take her seriously.
A female netizen posted in the discussion area of Dugu Jiujian Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law that she has been married for 9 years, but no one in her mother-in-law’s family knows her name, and even if they do, they have never heard them call her by her name. .
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The original PO said, "Obviously there was a wedding banquet and a wedding post. Even my mother repeatedly emphasized my name, and said in a joking way that my daughter has been married for so long, and I don't know her name." The original PO emphasized that she is a mother-in-law The first daughter-in-law in the family, and her name is only 3 characters, it is not particularly difficult to remember.
What makes Yuan PO even more aggrieved is that her husband's uncle's son's girlfriend who has been with him for less than 3 years is pregnant and gave birth to a child. This year's New Year's Eve, as a sister-in-law, she brought the child back to the stove. "I feel uncomfortable when I hear my aunt call him by his name." I am not respected by my in-laws.
The original PO expressed angrily, "I'm not an aboriginal or a foreigner, so it's hard to remember my name. Why on earth do you call me 'who is that', 'what's that name', 'XXX's wife' every year? I have a name and a surname, okay? "The original PO said that although it has been so many years before, I think it doesn't seem to be a problem, "But this year I want to call me ㄏㄧㄌㄡ (the Taiwanese language of that), and then call that name that has only been here for 3 years, and it still doesn't The one with the surname is called, anyway, I gave birth to a boy and a girl, and I was put there, and I was asked to take the child back all day long, and I didn’t remember the name and bring a fart.”
As soon as the article came out, it aroused heated discussions among netizens, and netizens left messages expressing that the husband's family disrespected the original PO.
"Next time you go back, print your name in big size on A4 paper, and stick it on the door of your mother-in-law's room at home", "Whatever attitude they treat you, you should treat you back in the same way", "Can't call your name Just don’t respond and don’t care”, “It’s just disrespecting you!”, “I think the first person to marry into her in-law’s family is the most unlucky, and she will always be an outsider”.