You have suffered immeasurably. You have lost your self-esteem, your heart and your soul. You've experienced a heartbreak so painful that it buried all your hopes and dreams before your eyes.
A partner, relative or parent – intentionally or unintentionally – may have hurt you in ways that have long traumatized you.
And the wounds they inflicted on you continue to remind you of the pain you suffered.
You should know that none of this was your fault!
The things you were forced to live with didn't show up because you asked for them.
You didn't deserve to be treated like this.
You didn't deserve the agony and suffering.
What happened to you was something you never thought could happen.
However, unfortunately it happened.
And now you're here and you have no choice but to try to dust yourself off and move on.
You are doing everything you can for yourself.
You are doing your best to remain intact as a human being.
You're trying to find a way to get back on track, but there's a great force holding you back, and you don't even know exactly what it is.
A voice that keeps showing up, telling you that nothing will ever be the same.
And you are afraid.
You are afraid of the inside of your mind.
You are terrified because you don't want to live in this hell.
But there is a way out…
To be able to move forward and finally turn a new page in your life, you must first face the "demons" within you.
You must accept the past to be able to begin the healing process.
You have to accept the pain as part of you and let it come and go.
And then you will see yourself and say:
"This is me, lost and broken, but I will find the inner strength to get myself out of this mess!"
The pain you went through may not have been your fault, but the healing process is up to you.
It's the least you can do for yourself after such a series of devastating experiences.
You must take the first step into the great unknown, full of potential.
To face the things that terrify you but must be dealt with.
To work with painful memories and bring new, exciting light into your life.
To change.
To overcome.
To evolve.
To live to your full potential.
Waiting for those feelings to just dissipate into nothing is not the answer.
It won't take away the pain.
It won't bring you the peace you want.
It will only prolong the suffering.
It's all about the journey.
It's about how it changes you, hurts you, inspires you, and motivates you.
But first and foremost, it's about how you choose to react to it.
So who will you be playing in your story?
The hero or the victim?
Source: iheartintelligence, Anabel