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A few days ago, a partner in the study club, A Mei, shared her experience of being a charity. She adopted a child through an organization. She meets each other every two years. She always prepares gifts for the child and the family with a very happy mood.

During the happy gathering time, she will try her best to interact with the children, and carefully observe the interaction between the children and their families, understand the children's physical and mental conditions and academics, etc., she is not only the help of tangible money, but even hopes to give more intangible teaching, hope Helped children can improve their studies and stay out of poverty.

Hearing what Amy said, I felt a little embarrassed.

I have also been an adopter for many years. I have changed a few children, but I have never thought of attending the reunion. Every year I receive a thank-you letter from a child. I am very comforted.

The children talked about their academic background, school situation, family status (mostly single-parent families), etc. You can feel that their hard life has been changed because of this support.

I silently pray that all is well for the children and their families.

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But when the subject changed, Amei said that a small episode made her stop the adoption plan.

Once, she bought a lot of gifts to meet her child again. When she handed the gift to the child, she asked him if he wanted to share it with his brothers and sisters at home?

The child replied without thinking, "No!" Ah Mei was dumbfounded, and then learned that the child's mother had 13 children with several men at a young age.

Amei felt that the mother's problem was too great, and believed that no matter how much she helped such a family, she would not be able to turn the child's situation around.

A Mei ended the child's adoption, but did not receive any words of thanks, she felt very disappointed.

The agency also neglected to express its gratitude to her, which made her leave the adoption program sadly.

As adopters, Ami and I have completely different expectations for the project.

There is nothing wrong with Ami caring about her children and family. I hope that her efforts will bring improvement to the children and the family, and focus on whether the children will be able to improve themselves. Of course, I also hope that the adopted children will one day get out of the quagmire of family embarrassment and become a leader. The mainstay of the family's livelihood, but I don't feel disappointed because my children say "thank you" in person.

Since you want to help others, why should you be fettered by a word.

Amei cares about the feedback after giving, and my consistent attitude of helping others is to be willing and not ask for anything in return.

However, what happened to Ah Mei also gave me a big blow. I have to think more thoroughly and perfect everything I do, instead of using my own selfish imagination, otherwise I am afraid I will fall into the same negligence as the organization.

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