The psychologist reminds that facing and dealing with psychological trauma is to help oneself rebuild one's life and reduce the impact of psychological trauma on future life. Don't shy away from asking for help; the picture shows the situation.

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[Reporter Xu Lijuan/Kaohsiung Report] The plot of the heroine of the recent drama "She and Her" was raped by a wolf master reminded the public of the story of the best-selling book "Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise" and the author Lin Yihan a few years ago The tragedy of suicide and death. These incidents have aroused the public to face up to the existence of "wolf teachers" in the education field. However, Zhong Suying, director of the clinical psychology department of Kaixuan Hospital, reminded that in the past two years, there have been frequent outpatient cases of female high school students who were sexually assaulted by male classmates from the same school or the same class. Invasion, and then suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder and depression, appealing to also beware of "my classmate is a werewolf".

Psychologist Zhong Suying pointed out that according to a campus survey in Taiwan, nearly 4 out of 10 underage students under the age of 15 have had sexual experience. The results of this survey are shocking. These bodies have gradually matured, but Mentally immature teenagers seem to have faced the issue of gender relations early, especially in the past 2 years in the hospital outpatient department, we often see female high school students suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder and depression because of being sexually assaulted by male classmates in the same school or class It is unimaginable that 10-year-old high school boys have become the perpetrators of sexual assault, and the underage female students have lost their hope in life.

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Zhong Suying said that a male case told the psychologist very clearly in the psychotherapy room, "The main purpose of going to high school is to have a girlfriend, and you can have a sexual relationship." This is the message he learned in the online world. The minds of teenagers are influenced by the Internet world and begin to become impure.

The cases I have seen in the hospital so far include male students who volunteered to be drivers and were willing to ride a motorcycle to drive female students home, but ended up driving the girls to a certain place to sexually assault them; or girls who were in a bad mood and their parents were not at home invited boys I stayed with myself at home, so I was lured into the house and was sexually assaulted; or I was invited to play at a male classmate’s house, and I was raped; or the two claimed to be lovers, and they went in and out together on campus. He accused the man of sexual assault.

Looking at the above cases, Zhong Suying analyzed that these male students took the opportunity to assault the female students they knew well in order to satisfy their personal sexual desires, which not only seriously harmed the physical and mental health of the female students, but even affected their life development. When the incident broke out, the victims entered the school for investigation by the gender equality education committee After that, it is almost impossible to go to school normally, because the perpetrator is still in the same school, or even in the same classroom, and will meet each other every day at school, which will intensify the pain and fear of the victim.

Furthermore, the gossip among classmates and the teacher’s disapproval will also cause the victim to suffer secondary trauma. Some secondary trauma is more lethal to the physical and mental health of the victim than the original trauma of sexual assault, causing the victim to hide in himself. The world in which people live is unwilling to interact with outsiders, and even has the idea of ​​self-destruction, and the young years have since lost hope and vision.

Zhong Suying observed that the reason why girls are victimized is mostly related to the psychological needs of being loved and cared for, which leads to the opportunity for male students to take advantage of it.

Clinically, it can be observed that many victims are emotionally alienated from their parents, or are not valued and cared by their parents at home, so they do not want their parents to know after being victimized, so as not to be blamed and punished.

Under such circumstances, schools, medical units, and social and political units often need to provide a lot of assistance to the victims to reduce the victims' sense of helplessness, psychological trauma, and the pressure of facing school investigations and judicial proceedings.

Zhong Suying called on students to preserve evidence and seek help bravely after being sexually assaulted. If you are not sure whether your family and teachers are trustworthy, you can go directly to the hospital and have medical professionals provide necessary assistance. Remember to face and deal with these traumas It is to help yourself rebuild your life and reduce the impact of psychological trauma on your future life. Don't be shy about asking for help.

In addition, you should also have a sense of self-protection, try to maintain a moderate physical boundary with others, avoid being alone with the opposite sex, or take the other's car or motorcycle, and do not easily upload personal photos and private information to netizens, or prematurely The most important life task at this stage of junior high school is to learn good interpersonal skills and move towards the climbing period of life. You should protect yourself so that you can grow up safely and happily.

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